...are you going to take her? While most first date options traditionally favored the candlelight romantic dinner or such similar fare, experts are now re-evaluating their take on this. Research is now suggesting that first dates benefit more from doing fun things together. Like going to a funfair or a rock concert. They say that the thrill and excitement of a roller coaster ride, or the adrenaline rush that is brought on by rock music, lends itself to spicing up the first date, thus making a good impression.
Since first dates can sometimes be awkward affairs, a casual setting like a comedy club or even a blues bar, can provide an easygoing atmosphere to what could otherwise be a slightly tense experience. While a first date should lend itself to conversation, if you are one of those types who is slightly nervous or edgy around a first-time date, it would be a good idea to take her where you don’t have to initiate too much conversation.
..do you plan to get there? Are you going to pick her up or agree to meet at the venue itself? Once again, you don’t need to put yourself out or travel to the opposite end if the venue of your date is somewhere in between. She’ll think she already has you where she wants you, at her beck and call, and half the fun is lost. You could suggest meeting somewhere half way. But there are still women who feel very special if their date makes the effort to pick them up, and you could throw it in for good measure without seeming unduly enthusiastic. If she leaps in to take you up on it, you can be sure it will add up in your favor to do the chivalrous thing.
